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Dear Readers,

This is the time of year I am grateful for afternoon swims in the pool and cold showers to cool down from the heat. It’s HOT. Oh, have you been drinking enough water?

And, then there are other things for which to be grateful! Our bodies, good health, friends, food in the fridge, a computer, calmness, stacks of books, and fascinating information gleaned from the World Wide Web.

In the most recent Staying Awake, I mentioned writing a trilogy of after thoughts following my physical and emotional shifts, which occurred on June 10 at a coach luncheon. If you would like to refresh your memory about my “Surprise!” experience and what followed, installment Part 1 is here; installment Part 2 is here; the third installment in the trilogy starts now.

A Shift within a Shift, part 3
my personal story
third of three installments

Since my experience of feeling a physical shift prepared me for a surprising shift to empathy for males and their suppressors, information about mothers and children came my direction like wind rushing through a tunnel. I have been facing into the wind, grabbing onto floating thoughts and ideas, then weeping at the findings I felt nudged to read.

Trust your passions, every one. From my experiences in the last several weeks, staying awake to shifts and “Surprise!” manifestations proves we can observe the directions into which our passions move us. By the way, we are not in control nearly as much we like to believe, but that’s another topic.

A recent lecture by Joseph Chilton Pearce inspired this newsletter. While in my usual style, I chose to interpret as closely as possible the compilation of relevant ideas I heard. To refer the many scientists’ names and findings would have likely doubled the size of this ezine. Pearce’s passionate, 25-year exploration has been in human consciousness, child development, and, more recently, in the amazing connections between the human brain and the physical heart.

At first, you might wonder how motherhood would impact the futures of coaching, small businesses and enterprises, and functions of corporations. Let’s keep eyes open, and stay awake. Protection of motherhood might finally reach critical mass as we move further into this decade of long held secrets revealed.

During pregnancy, if the female feels secure, wanted, loved, cared for, the fetus develops a large forebrain and a sharply decreased hindbrain. If the female feels insecure, unwanted, unloved, uncared for, the fetus develops a large hindbrain and a sharply decreased forebrain.

The emotional state of the mother determines form, function, shape, and structure of the infant’s brain in utero, as well as through the ‘in the arms’ period, those first nine months after birth, and beyond.

Imagine the ‘Forces That Be’ could speak English, asking this question upon conception of every child: With this new life coming in, will we go for our highest intelligence, or will we have to defend ourselves, again?

The forebrain just allowed you to understand the above paragraph, which refers to the virtues of the forebrain, and the decadence of the hindbrain.

An enlightened, educated, schooled, or otherwise reasonable culture, which listens to their scientists, will rally to assure that every pregnant female is protected, not ignored, not neglected, and given as much care, love, and consideration as that culture can possibly provide.

Whether Earthlings remain within the confines of our ancient reptilian, survival-defense brain generating conflict in families, businesses, and regenerating wars, or whether we move into the next phase of empathic intelligence, depends on the pregnant mother's emotional state.

To exalt and protect motherhood would cause humanity’s escorting onto Earth radically different people, and rapidly, too. We would release illusions’ pressures for high standards of living, and create and sustain higher qualities of life. Corporations’ business as usual, and our businesses and enterprises, would never be the same. (*)

What I hope for... Many males would get coached into empathic programs: feel their feelings, love themselves, and protect their wives and their children from fear.

I see how elegantly females could bring into existence peace and nurture on Earth. Things are going to work out for us Earthlings but not by business alone; certainly not by linear brained ethics nor moralistic invectives; instead, biological transformation. I say bring on transformations.

Coaching Angelic

The term ‘angelic lobes’ was coined by a neuroscientist for a section of the brain called prefrontal cortex. Through the cortex, love, compassion, empathy, spiritual experience - all ranges of intimacy, awareness, and feeling – are discerned. Notice the cortex does not initiate nor produce those discernments; it allows them.

But, between the heart and the brain, like the betrayed spouse, the brain is last to know. Among the physical heart’s capabilities, the heart senses experiences before they appear, and signals the approach without a judgment call to the brain. The brain signals the judgment call back to the heart, and they both zip into appropriate action. The process takes less than a blink of your eyes.

Here’s my take on the next level of coaching…

As female and male coaches applaud scientific discoveries about the physical heart being keener than the brain, coaches and the industry might remove desensitizing language from their advertising. Today’s highly commercialized, ‘go for the gold’ or ‘go for the pain’ coaching is not going to last, but empathic coaching will.

Perhaps the heart and language of coaching could again feature the fundamental distinctions upon which it was founded. I want to believe coaching might help unconceal harmony through civility, ready to breathe, angelic.

Heart Ribbons

The stunning discoveries about the physical body and its heart evoke too much fascination not to report the discoveries with some excitement. Well, a whole bunch of excitement, because what follows is no longer scientific hypothesis.

The invisible energy surrounding us, that many of us call magic, has been discovered as the heart of all creativity!

Here’s an exercise I’ve just made up. Hopefully, it helps you visualize the cocoon generated around your body at every instant of your life. It is by this energy we are able to manifest, as we wish.

  • Sense your physical heart. Yes, right now, feel its location, and its pumping inside your chest

  • Visualize wide ribbons of light blue energy vibrating out from your heart, flowing outside your body

  • Visualize the wide ribbons circling around to enter your lower pelvic area

  • See those ribbons shooting up through your body, and out the top of your head

  • See those vibrating ribbons whirling around, entering your body again, into the physical heart.

Could you visualize the exercise? I hope so. Quicker than a blink of your eyes, every instant of your life is filled to the max with anything and everything that’s imaginable – and everything nearly imaginable - in a vibrating cocoon, humming in a rhythm that is yours.

MRI’s of the heart prove the ribbons of energies are electromagnetic waves creating all humans’ cocoons; Earth has a cocoon, too, generated by the same kinds of waves. I feel we approach profoundly hallowed ground here:

  • we Earthlings are interconnected with one another by our cocoons radiating out of our physical hearts
  • the Earth’s cocoon interconnects with ours by radiating from its core the same energies as ours
  • the sun is interconnected with Earth.

    Hallowed ground comes out of the sense that all within and beyond our solar system and physical universe is interconnected with our physical hearts. It boggles the mind to think even deeper that a Grand Conspicuous Intelligence unifies, nurtures, and loves everything everywhere - all at the same time. And, to imagine we’ve been schooled to think religion had a monopoly on the idea.

    This distinction will likely confront you, because we are not trained to believe: The only community existing is that with our physical hearts; we need not assume we must be in community with others for that idea is illusory. After you intuit what has been written here, community with others becomes an entirely different experience - unity.

We Earthlings, pulsing ribbons of blue,
Connect with Earth’s bluish cocoon;
And pulses return, springs love into hearts,
Begins to create there, again.

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Our constant curiosity is key to watching what's being created.  ~ DM

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