Good Grief, Praise Our Magnificence
© David Moorhead — February 2006
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Good grief, praise our magnificence for staying awake to females and males
who govern and presumably hold dear citizens’ posterity and prosperity.
They would have us neglect what they remember and manipulate every day for their
own purposes.
Disingenuous, double-speaking governances, who by the way gasp for air and
near faint in front of us, are embarrassed about their own grandiose, supercilious
attempts of psychological control over the populaces.
Their distracting same-ole, same-ole smirked pomposities about citizens’
security assurances ad nauseam turn bureaucrats into silly clowns in full makeup
and costume. Following the industry of religion, government appears the next
biggest contentious circus; some officials feel scorned by reported plunge of
television viewers opting for American Idol, instead.
Hell hath no fury like a bureaucrat scorned.
~ Milton Friedman (b 1912), an economist, advocate of laissez-faire capitalism,
1976 Nobel Prize
I would rather be in the face of illusions with compassion's arm around me
than for one second crawl back into bed and pull the covers over my sensibilities.
Isn’t it magnificent that we are awake to our inquiring minds rather than
lamenting and munching pretzels between the sheets? I'm fascinated with study,
especially tracking trails of religions' monies and malfeasance, and clowns'
bejeweled robes and shoe prints tell the tales.
Staying awake to watch foreseeable geopolitical and religious eclipses urges
feelings of grief, and that’s good. That’s good grief. Last week,
while reading an historically informative and heartfelt article on grief, sweeps
of a “Surprise!” deep disappointment draped over me, slowly. By
the end of the written piece, I sobbed with my face cupped in my palms.
In those grueling moments of sorrow, I grieved cruelties my global sisters
and brothers have experienced during enormous armed hostilities. I imagined
disappearings of religion's industry of flammed dogma, groveling educational
systems, and flattering lifestyle patterns that had been anticipated and streamlined,
evolved on our behalf, to dupe (U.S.) citizens at least since World War II.
Flourishing webs of galling deceits have had their peculiar purposes designed
and shamelessly marketed by masculinized religious and monetary authority.
Acknowledging human magnificence means many things not least of which accepting
responsibility for what we create, and the resultant manifested grief in lives
of our global sisters and brothers. After a few seconds of mulling again the
immensity of that thought, my mind wanders brokenhearted as calming effects
of chocolate set in.
Unfolding Grief
In 1969, Doctor Elisabeth Kubler-Ross educated many of us by writing about
the grief process. She described the five stages of grief as denial, anger,
bargaining, depression, and acceptance. From personal experience, I haven't
felt an unfolding grief process as a step by step procedure. Instead, grief
might be thought as a hammock netted of strong, slender golden threads of unconditional
compassionate attentiveness. I imagine we Earthlings roll around in our hammocks,
feeling one feeling of loss after another, tossing around in no particular order
from one stage into another in the floating net of deeply empathic graces.
I’ve made up some simple sentences for you as examples somewhat describing
the stages.
- Denial and isolation: This is not happening to us.
- Anger: How dare God do this.
- Bargaining: Just let us stay alive.
- Depression: I can't bear facing what’s happening.
- Acceptance: I'm ready to embrace what’s approaching.
Our grieving is healthy. Yes, I am grieving, rocking between denial, disappointment,
and anger about worldwide governances. Now that my historical frame of reference
is broadening, and my cosmology deepening, I realize those who declare they're
going to conquer, destroy, put away evil are themselves gulping clown pills
with cocktails, every morning.
Psychologists tell us that analyzing grief in a person cannot be equated for
groups nor entire nations. Wherever you find yourself in the grief process,
hold onto the idea that it's okay to feel deeply and express unfolding grief;
in unknowable ways, your expressions help us all move closer together into experiencing
the old eclipsed by the new.
Reserve Our Seats
If you cannot imagine savvy and slick religionists, double-speaking governmental
officials, cagey corporate talking heads, and ambidextrous international bankers
manipulating the psychology of the grief process, then you might be juggling
a few balls of denial in your hammock. They are all-knowing of the process,
even rolling around in it; resisting the feelings, fighting each other, tooth
and nail.
Moreover, we observe their greediness and suffering, and not incidentally,
because we cannot help being conscious and empathic observers of the illusions
they created into which we have been drawn. We are part of the whole planetary
grieving process. That has to be a magnificent thing to watch, and here’s
why.
Earthlings are being escorted from an existence embellished by a beastly monetary
indebtedness into the next phase of existence. Let me restate that: We, our
magnificent collective selves, have indeed created this extravaganza whether
or not we claim to have manipulated ourselves into our theatrical spectacle.
We’re presently pressured to escort one another right onto center stage
of global financial debacle.
With all the science at our disposal, it appears our species didn’t
architect an escape hatch unless you believe in the ancient Greek theater’s
deus ex machina. That is, machinery, a boon of sorts, which lowered onto stage
an actor whose presence was meant to save another character from the likes
of a massive dilemma or near fatal episode. Isn’t that similar to Jesus’
second coming?
All—everything—has been made up, and exquisitely intelligent, too.
This zenith of human experience is all about witnessing results of experiments
in theaters of illusions of intentional anxiety and shame, spotlighting illusions’
collusions. Bankers’, lawyers’, and accountants’ schemes of
indebtedness frantically toss installments from nations’ pocketbooks to
a wily beast whose many hungry heads are behemoth corporations, devouring the
only food they know—money; nurturing dis-ease in every meme possible,
advertised in any medium available. For millennia, it appears Earthlings have
been dominated by those who, presuming self-righteous collars, piously forced
structure of our lives upon what we now can describe with the biblical metaphor
as sinking sand.
I just didn't realize until post-9/11 that pious paranoids skillfully penned
their own sinking sand metaphor, but turned it upside down, projecting it in
as many ways as possible, insinuating it was everyone else's problem, not theirs.
Billions of unsuspecting humans would be drawn into the insidious psychological,
financial debacled system either by their own volition, or from violent repressions
over millenniums to this day.
Our global theatrical spectacle is now in full swing, and in our faces, et
al. Not unlike the present preposterous power and avarice regimes, patriarchs
and some matriarchs, presuming authority millennia ago, turned upside down most
if not all significant ideas in which our tax-paying ancestors had become accustomed.
The concepts of existing in unconditional oneness with the creator and life
after death were skewed; then philosophies and sciences, and their texts, went
the same way. The creative and manifesting spirit was finally closeted to such
extremes that generations of citizenries who followed witnessed their own magnificence,
but only in momentary intuitive instances in worlds of cancerous insinuations
in which they were seemingly forced to live.
Signs, symbols, statues, paintings, and music manifested artful illusions inspiring
reptilian-brained religious and other historical texts marketing love of war,
eloquent poetry concealing masculinized governments’ clashing dualities,
acerbated by debt collectors’ elephantine dupes—all for the sake
of unimaginably abusive intimidations between and inside nations.
From clues and anticipations of tricky disturbances, our lives will eventually
be turned upside down right, returning to an elegance and magnificence with,
perhaps, compassionate touches of technology.
And, so it goes that likely no one alive knows precisely what’s going
to happen next in our extravaganza, nor when, nor into which section on the
stage we are pointing ourselves. There doesn't seem to be a mindful director
nor stage manager in sight. The curtain has risen on ethics that had kept illusions
and their systems' stratagems in place. Everyone is experiencing the unknown,
that is, an absence of certainty. Every kind of experience but one kind has
been based in illusions’ certainties.
What isn’t illusory, then? I think the answer is something resembling
intuition. The intuitive is us showing ourselves our own energetic, empathic,
magnificent, resourceful, stunningly imaginative and creative, contented, and
happy presences! In ways, the intuitive is staying awake to, or familiarity
with, observing near instant manifestations that magically leak out the only
extant truth—nearly comprehensible energetic forces of Grand Conspicuous
Intelligence, some call it spirit—swirling around and inside our bodies,
every awake and unawake moment.
With resplendent resilience, we’re staying awake on center stage, looking
out to the theater’s audience who smiles back at us through compassionate
applauding hands. Maybe, it’s not about how we’re collectively feeling
and thinking and emoting right now. Could global events be about our unfolding
futures observed by the audience? Look! That audience is us! Good grief, praise
our magnificence for staying awake enough to reserve our seats.
Our constant curiosity
is key
to watching what’s being created.
~ David Moorhead |